The Conflict Avoidance Affair
Views: 131The Conflict Avoidance Affair This is the couple that seems so very nice, yet one of them will ‘go around the block and across the street’ in order not to have conflict. In this situation it is easier for the person to handle an unfaithful situation than...Deciding Whether to Stay Married or Get a Divorce?
Views: 264 The decision needs to be based on thoughtful assessment rather than emotional reaction. Based on the results of a survey of 1,083 people whose spouses had affairs How long after discovery was there a decision as to whether to stay...
Can a couple survive an affair?
Views: 257It was just before midnight one night in October when Hillary Rothrock, a 30-year-old stay-at-home mom, discovered a side of her husband she’d never known existed. The Lancaster, Pa., couple had been to an exercise class at the YMCA, then took their...Self-Actualization
Views: 186Key Points Self-actualization is the expression of your true self, your fullest potential, and your great capacities. A self-actualized human being is one that’s firing on all cylinders, functioning at his peak. What would the fully evolved and...How to stay married for life – 9 Key Tasks
Views: 113Research on what makes a marriage work shows that people in a good marriage have completed these “tasks”: 1. Separate emotionally from the family you grew up in; not to the point of estrangement, but enough so that your identity is separate from...Savannah Ellis was featured in Elle Magazine
Views: 111Savannah Ellis was featured in the article “The Seven-Month Itch” in the May 2014 Elle magazine: ” Researchers have pinpointed the seven-month mark as the flashpoint where extramarital affairs begin, giving rise to the seven-month itch...How to ask open ended questions?
Views: 212Questions for which the answer is either “yes” or “no” are universally known to be poor ways to dig into an issue. If you are trying to investigate something about your relationship with your partner, you need to learn how to ask open-ended questions. Almost...
How to apologize after an affair?
Views: 186An apology needs to be an unequivocal statement that communicates to the injured partner a real understanding of the pain the cheater has caused and a legitimate and heartfelt promise never to engage in the same behavior again. The apology might also...
Does anyone understand the grief after betrayal?
Views: 143 Hi Savannah, I’ve recently had the experience of my wife betraying our marriage. I am so at loss for what my life means right now. As a man, it has destroyed my pride. I am grieving the loss of what was and what could be. Recently I have been seeing a...
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