Opposite Sex Friends and Cheating

Opposite Sex Friends and Cheating

When you are with someone who could tempt you to compromise your commitment to your spouse, ask yourself one question: Is this new person a friend of my marriage? If he or she is a great buddy of yours, but doesn’t care to know about, or interact with, your spouse,...
Are You A Conversational Narcissist?

Are You A Conversational Narcissist?

  This week, I met up with an old friend I hadn’t seen in forever to have lunch. Having both read and written about how to be an effective and charismatic conversationalist, I followed the old dictum of listening more than talking and asking the other person engaging...
How do I get my husband to give me affection?

How do I get my husband to give me affection?

Dear Dr. Sav, My husband and I have recently decided to give our troubled marriage (24 years) another chance after a two-year separation. My biggest problem is that he does not know how to be affectionate to me. He tells me, “you don’t accept the love I...
4 Life Coaching Tips For when you are feeling lost

4 Life Coaching Tips For when you are feeling lost

Feeling lost is something that almost everyone experiences in life. Remember… Everything Happens For A Reason. Nothing in life has meaning besides the meaning we give it, so when you’re feeling lost you get to decide if the moment is empowering you or...
Top Conflict Points In Marriage

Top Conflict Points In Marriage

The typical argument a couple has greatly depends on the length of time married. For example a newly married couple will argue about different things than a couple who’s been married 20 years. I’ve listed the top five issues couples normally argue about...

Handling Your Partner’s Anger

How can you cope with an anger partner? Important relationship advice during affair recovery. Stay calm – Don’t get into a screaming match. If your partner gets ‘overheated,’ explain that you will be willing to talk with him/her. But, right now, tempers are too...